Always be careful with the words you say to your spouse especially during an argument or when you are angry.
What comes out of your mouth could cost you your marriage.
To avoid regrets, never utter these words to your partner:
1. "I hate you"
Before you moved in together, you always loved them, but now because of some little anger, you say you hate them. Watch your mouth! These words can turn off all the love your partner has for you because they hurt.
2. "I make more money than you"
Yes, you do, but why must you say it? Once two people come together, they start sharing everything. The much money you make is for the two of you. Speaking such words could mess with your spouse's self-esteem.
3. "Shut up"
Never shut down your spouse whenever they are trying to pass their own side of the story. Each of you has a right to defend your arguments. Whenever they speak, give them time.
4. "I wish I never got involved with you"
This is one of the statements that can really hurt one's feelings. No matter how good you felt with some other person, accept that you have a new partner and adapt to their way of life. Saying this makes them feel unwanted.
5. "I want a divorce"
Never threaten your spouse with divorce. If you think the marriage won't work in its present state, the right decision to make is to sit down and discuss changes. Threatening to divorce will make your spouse feel rejected and unsafe loving you.