The unwritten universal laws dictate that a man should make the first move in any given relationship, especially romantic ones.
This is the reason why it is hard for a lady to tell a man straight up that she wants to have sex with him. Instead, she will send various signals indicating that she wants to sleep with the guy.
Some of the ladies from universities based in Eldoret revealed some of the sure signs that indicate they want to get beneath the sheets with a man.
According to Blessing Kwamboka, a psychology student at Moi University, the type of topics a lady chooses to talk about and her behaviour during the conversation is something to look out for.
"If the lady focuses on sexual topics then there is a high probability that she wants to be laid. Certain physical behaviour during the conversation is also key, for instance biting her lower lip, leaning towards the guy, placing her hand on the guy's thighs and even exposing her thighs," Kwamboka explained.
For Nancy Wambui, a third-year student at the University of Eldoret, it is all in the way a lady dresses.
"Her clothing should be enough indicator for the guy to know if the lady wants to sleep with him. Too much exposure of the thighs and cleavage is a green light for the guy to make a move. This may however not apply to all ladies, but a majority of the girls use it," Wambui noted.
Linet Kibaba, a second-year student at Moi University West campus on her part says if a lady wants to sleep with the guy, she will lower all her guard.
"If a lady wants to sleep with a guy, she will be completely defenceless in front of him. The guy should therefore always try to make a move. If the lady does not resist, then he should continue. The move can be as simple as placing his hand on her thigh during the conversation," Kibaba noted.
In as much as the guy is tasked with making the first move, ladies are human too with feelings and thus have their own way of making the first move.
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