You have fallen in love with your significant other but you think things are going fast than they are supposed to be.
In order to maintain a healthy relationship, both parties should be happy and comfortable with where the relationship is heading.
If it is going at a fast speed and you are worried about it or losing interest, employ these tips to slow everything down;
1. Communicate with your partner
To slow down things you have to know that both of you understand that things are moving a bit fast. For a healthy relationship, no one should force the other to do what they don't want to. A good partner will listen to you and respect your opinion. Talk to them about what you are feeling about your relationship.
2. Spend sometime apart
A relationship could be moving fast since you are spending much time with your partner. Look for a job where you would be spending most of the daytime or hang out with your friends on weekends or your free times. This will help you to re-pace your relationship. Use the time you are alone and reflect on what you want from the relationship and also respect the feelings of your partner.
3. Identify what makes you uncomfortable
Check out the situations that make the relationship move fast and makes you or your partner uncomfortable. Try the best you can to solve them first for your comfortability and do not forget that the way you respond to them and how they have pressure on your partner will determine if things will be slowed down or escalate than before.