It is true that finding a life partner may not be easy, but some men don’t make an effort since they are busy judging, cursing, creating misconceptions in their minds about women and so on.
If you are a man and you have one of the following misconceptions, please change, lest you remain single:
1. “These women are after my money”
This is totally wrong. Some men believe that women want rich men to look after them. The truth is that feeling financially secure in a relationship may be the need for some women but not all.
Again, most women love men with vision, not men who are “comfortable” in their current “poverty status. There is another percentage which does not care about all this; all they want is to settle down and spread the love.
2. “Women should be slim, or with a perfect body”
By the way, if you don’t want to be valued based on the size of your wallet, why do you want women to be valued based on their beauty alone?
This is not fair. Women come in different sizes and are beautiful in their own way. They have intelligence that can be valued too. You may not get the chance of getting a loved one if you continue pushing away ladies based on body preferences.
3. “If she is very sexual, she won’t be a wife material”
First, just because she agreed to sleep with you while dating, this does not give you rights to call her names nor judging her.
If you want a wife material, focus on inner qualities.
4. “Women nowadays want a man to settle with quickly”
This is wrong too. You are not the only one who wants to test a relationship and later on, be able to settle after an assurance that you are with the right partner.
She may also be thinking the same thing as you do. Not all of them want a quick shortcut.
5. “They want to change us, men!”
Some even go further by saying that women want to control them. You do not need to fear this, no one wants to change you. But why again cling on your bad habits?
If you have in the past subscribed to these mindsets, shed them off now.
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