Love is a special feeling. It can be felt from very deep inside your heart, and express itself on the outside even when you try your best to submerge it. Once you love someone, it is almost quintessentially impossible to ever part ways or just call it quits, especially if it is, something great. The kind built over a long period of time. If you love them and they love you all in the right ways, you get to bond very specially and flourish as a unit.
But What will you do to ensure they do not feel pressured and love you in the right ways without being told what to do? Well, the answers lie with your own self. You have to respect yourself.
There may arise problems in the relationship; or misunderstandings. You may feel that he is not doing everything you feel he should do. You will feel that he isn’t as loving as you would want him to possibly be. He may be doing everything but missing out on the critical things that you want. Telling him how to love you is a terrible move to make. He should just show it.
Just be there with him and when he needs you. Talk about the things you like and the ones you dislike. Do not tell him how to make you happy. If he really cares, he shall struggle to make you happy and always see to it that you have that smile on your face.
He should care if he loves you. Do not compel him to act fake and split up his personality.
He should do things that show that you matter and that you hold a special place in his life. From texting in the morning to buying you those small and otherwise petty gifts, his love for you will be written in between those small things. Do not tell him to do them often, just let him do them and make sure you also appreciate. These are the things that will show that he has a place for you in his world.
When you have been in love with someone for a very long time, there is usually that psychological bond that exists. Your chemistry is just top-notch and the equations well lain out. It’s hard to fake this but some may be so good at faking and deceive you for so long. In such a position, if it is really something real, he will always know what you want. You do not have to remind him to do anything.
You will want to see their effort in the way they love you. You may believe the words but seeing the action is something you do not want to just pass on, you also need to see the struggle. Again, do not tell him to love you in any particular way.
Let him study you and find the ways to love you, that’s what real love is all about.
If you lecture them on how they should love you, it is possible that they may get infuriated, inwardly. If this happens, they may decide to just literally take the backseat in every struggle you are going through.
Do not expose him to situations where he has to be fake to satisfy what you want as well as make you comfortable.
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