A relationship is meant to make you happy. 

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However, all relationships have challenges.Several things could make a relationship go wrong.

Ladies especially have too many expectations which later lead to disappointments.

Here are three common expectations that later hurt ladies in relationships:

1. The first impression a man showed you persist forever Most men are just like politicians during campaigns; they will do all they can to get your votes, after that, you go back to the drawing board.

You should take the first impression as the highest possible quality a man could have, and not the minimum.

A man could take you out on expensive dates and surprise you with random gifts during the first dates just to impress you. 

Don't expect him to do it as frequently as he used to when you are several months into the relationship.

2. Thinking you can change him

If a man has lived all his life in a certain way,  with certain characters, then am sorry to say he would barely change because of you. 

You have to decide whether to accept him with his behaviour or not and never depend on your imagination of changing him. 

3. Thinking ahead of time

Most ladies tend to foresee the future with their new partners immediately they start dating.

They start thinking of marriage, children, happy family among other fantasies way ahead of time. 

A man's brain is designed to take things one step at a time.

You may end up getting hurt when you realise the man you are dating is not thinking of the same things you are.

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