Parenting is not an easy task. Though most parents want the best for their kids, some children end up under the care of toxic parents.
Here are three signs of toxic parents.
1. They always put their feelings first
Good parents always put the feelings and needs of their children first. They sacrifice a lot to ensure that their kids' needs are well catered for. Toxic parents only think about themselves which can sometimes lead to child neglect. Though the final decision always lies with the parents, it is important to consider your children's feelings when making decisions that affect them.
2. They demand their children's attention
Children need attention from their parents but with toxic parents, this is the opposite. The parents will demand the children to give them their maximum attention. This denies the children the opportunity to learn new things as they will always be dealing with their parents' issues. Parents should not dump their frustrations on their children by expecting the kids to take up the parenting role.
3. They give you the silent treatment
Sometimes anger can lead one to this situation but this shouldn't be the case when dealing with children. Whenever you are angry, you should not pass the anger to the children by not talking to them. This interferes with the children’s mental and emotional health. The child may think that you ignoring them, which might cause them to think you don't love them.