Relationships are not a bed of roses. There are different things that happen in relationships that can make you hate why you fell in love in the first place. A one-sided relationship is hard to maintain. If your partner becomes selfish, it is difficult to deal with him or her. Here are four ways you’re being selfish in your relationship without even realizing it, as outlined by Newscult.com

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1. You rarely hang out with him or her

It is good to hang out with your partner. Some people prefer hanging out with friends. Your partner also needs your time. Your partner feels less loved if you reach a point and stop taking him or her out. 

2. You prioritize your job

As much as your work plays an immense role in your life, do not ignore your partner completely. Find some time to be with your love. Spending time together will make your love life even stronger.

3. When you start doing more things that you love more than your partner

Before doing anything in the love affair, ask yourself how she or he feels. Never ignore the needs of your partner. Do not be a dictator when it comes to matters of love. Your partner will feel isolated if you do not consider him or her.

4. When you stop buying gifts

Gifts are a sign that you care. When you no longer buy her gifts as you used to do, it means you are becoming selfish. Your partner will not have reasons to continue loving you if you are going to change all of a sudden