Have you ever just felt like there is something terribly wrong with yourself? Like things are not just coming your way and that the whole wide world is conspiring to sabotage your course of life? Well, it happens a lot many times and it is understandably the basis of our existence. Things can never happen as you want them to always happen.
At times, you may develop a crush on someone but never get the courage to tell them to the face that you actually feel something deep about them. You will then just go on admiring them from a distance and stealing looks at them when they are totally unaware. When you do this, they even turn out to be even more stunning with regards to what you already see them. Your perception will just conspire with your sense of sight to make them seem like something you have never seen.
At times, many factors may come together to rob you of the real feeling of love in that everyone that comes along will seem like a fake object. On the other hand, you may just never be able to find that love because everyone that you see has no interest whatsoever in being with you. When this happens, you do not really need to blame yourself in any way. All you need to do is be patient and wait all the more.
Love is never harried to the point where it is supposed to be. If you cannot find it naturally, it is possibly not meant to be. Just keep waiting. Something great will happen. Time provides a platform on which everything can take shape and form or play out the way it should be. You can never write a script on which you intend to fall in love and the things you wish to see. That will be like exploring hell, you may really not like what happens with regards to what you expect it to be.
With time, the right person will come into your life, stay and give you better memories than the ones you wished to get. The true essence of what love really is conceited in there. When love starts manifesting between two souls, you will realize that there is that mild attraction between you. You will not really need to be saying it to each other. You will not be able to last even a day without the other even though you may not really have made your true intentions known to each other. that is the true love, the one that is so deeply rooted yet it does not even show on the outside.
Your love life may sometimes feel like a complete joke. You try to love but after just a few days in, you realize it was a terrible mistake that you made and you have to reverse everything. This will be happening at all days if you don't give it time. Every step that you take will need two in the opposite direction to equalize the 'mess.'
Having that constant feeling that you seriously need to make the move due to, age or maybe peer pressure is never healthy. You will always be at conflict with yourself yet it is something you can just contain by being a little more decent and patient with the kind of love life you want.
Always remember that real love is a feeling. It is not really all about dates and the petty gifts that make you put a smile on your face. Love is not about smiles even though it may be about happiness. The smile can be faked and go unnoticed, happiness cannot.
If you are really tired of waiting for love, my advice is that you train yourself to wait even more.
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