It is dangerous to easily get married to some group of people in the society. Since Eldoret is a metropolitan town, is hard to know someone fully as in the case of rural.
Some men are just after lust and not marriage in Eldoret. So, date keenly and avoid marrying the following type of men in town;
A married man
A married man of Eldoret is dangerous just like any other married man from elsewhere. He will come to you bearing all kinds of excuses on why his marriage is not working. He will give an excuse that he was forced to marry the woman he calls his wife to evade a generational curse. At the first moments, he will take you to outings in very expensive places in Eldoret like Boma Inn hotel just to ensure he has you. After having you, he will still go back to his wife and even block you over the phone. So be careful and trade well in love affair.
Sole breadwinner
If a man is a sole breadwinner, he is the extended family’s only hope in the world. He is the child who does the heaviest lifting at home. He takes care of his parents’ every need and all of his siblings’ education and other myriad financial burdens. Do not marry this man because you are just wasting time he has no need of you in his life. You will never come first or second or third in his life. You will be the one watching inside from the sidelines. Chauvinistic society has already won him over and there is no saving him. He will simply waste your time and go for a younger woman.
Msafi kama pamba
In life, every human must have a few skeletons in their closet. But with 'Msafi kama pamba', you cannot find any evidence to nail him. If his social media accounts, phones and existence have absolutely no indication that he has ever interacted with a woman be careful my friends. Eldoret is a rapidly growing town where people interact at a high rate. So he can not be so much pure that has never had a crush before you. Is better you date he whom you can trace his past. This one is dangerous, avoid.
Guys who love you too much
You might think this is odd as we are after all seeking someone to truly love us in urban. But when love goes overboard, it becomes dangerous as it is replaced by obsession and infatuation. Remember Eldoret that is at city level only that has not been branded, has all kinds of the dangerous group who may cheat in name of love then rob or destroy you. Much love will alert your attention to trust him and then give him a chance to monitor your every move and micromanage your life. Also, when he has too much love, he will have a higher chance of killing you if you try to break up with him as he believes that if he can’t have you, no one else should.
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