At one point you may have contemplated to getting back with your one-time lover who you separated from. This could be good as you have already learnt what worked and what did not work.
However, if you do get back and start loving each other again, be sure the following will happen:
1. More questions than answers.
To begin with, you will ask yourself if you are doing the right thing. Of course, if you are the one who initiated the break-up in the first place, you will feel awkward starting the conversation again.
You will ask yourself if you are really needed to send her/him away. Additionally, your friends whom you had told that you already had moved on will talk, they will ask so many questions.
2. Reduced fights
If in the previous relationship, you were fighting over infidelity or some petty issues that kept on getting bigger, right now it will be better.
This is because the period you were apart, you kept on thinking how you can become better, you thought and realised that this is the person you need and that is why you are getting back in the first place.
It all means that right now you will be more careful not to hurt the other person like before.
3. Things will be different
Jane, a girl in her 20s who had broken up with her boyfriend of three years decided to initiate the love again after she realised that she was missing him.
When they finally got back together, Jane says that it was different, "it felt like we had started a new thing. In fact, it felt more than when we first met".
If you decide to get back with your ex and it finally works out be sure to feel something new.