Being a father is easy but being a good father demands some serious sacrifice. The same sacrifice applies when you want to be a dream husband. You will need to research relevant information as well as receive some valuable training to be a father that your child will never forget and a husband that the world will miss. There are cases where you will require a mentor. This has to be someone who has been a good husband and father. Such wise moves will teach you to avoid these four things that can ruin your fatherhood.
1. Underrate her roles
This usually affects those of you who have wives that stay at home. The fact that they do not have a formal job does not make them lazy. What they do at home is worth appreciating. This has to be done even if she has a house help. Appreciate her supervisory role and do not forget the valuable advise she always gives you.
2. Workaholism
If you are a workaholic, you will never be a good father even if you make billions. It is advisable that you balance between your formal employment or business duties and your family. Stop working too much and have time with your wife and children.
3. Control
You are the head of the family but this does not mean you should control the acts of all members of your household. Give your wife time and space to be herself. The same should apply to your children.
4. Extra relationships
Having other lovers out after marrying is disrespectful, shameful and a show of insensitivity. If you love your wife, you will stop doing these things. You cannot pretend to love your child yet you cheat on its mother. Good husbands and fathers do not cheat.