Sometimes partners can display the blame game behaviour when a small issue happens.
It is always good to be safe to solve matters through an understanding attitude and also by trying to use logic and see whether you are not the toxic one so as to correct yourself and let the relationship blossom.
The following insights will let you know whether you are the one hindering this relationship:
1. Thinking that you never make mistakes
This is dangerous. Thinking that you are always right and the other partner does always make mistakes can only destroy. Always try to be on their side and try to ask yourself what you would feel in their shoes. That will help you in discerning.
2. Your humour is not that “funny” it hurts
Jokes are not supposed to be discomforting, rather, they are supposed to make someone feel relaxed and cozy. When your partner finds them to be offensive, then you are the one who is toxic in that relationship.
3. You lose your temper easily and your interests come first before your partner’s
You are not supposed to be angry all the time and even if you do, it should not last the whole day. Anger should last for some few minutes to leave room for a good and constructive discussion. Similarly, your interests should not come first, but your love should. Contrary to this is selfishness.