Before dating a guy, there are obvious things you should be aware of before talking your heart out.
Some may be so good at pretending. Love may not be enough to convince you; much as you may be convinced that it is all that is needed.
Nowadays, it is very easy for someone to fake love and even acts like you are the only one they have ever loved and will always love. They will do things that will make you feel it when it is actually non-existent.
But what really do you need to find out before considering dating a guy?
1. Their flirting behaviour
If the guy you want to love and have a relationship with is always flirting even in your presence, you should seriously consider stepping aside and giving it a second thought.
Otherwise, you should be prepared for a series of heartaches. You may really matter little to them if they can't even at least hide that from you.
2. Loyalty and commitment
If they are reluctant to commit themselves to the relationship, chances could be that they just want you to always be in their life, but as an option.
That is a worrying state of affairs as they could walk out on you anytime they want and not be ready to explain anything. A serious lover will always be willing to commit and be loyal.
3. Their creativity
A potential lover should always display some form of creativity. If they are dull and do not in any way want to do anything practical to ease through life, you may have to consider exploiting other options.
4. Temper management
How about that? Will you be able to stand someone who cannot control their temper? If so, then you should have no problem dating whoever comes along.
Otherwise, you should look at their reaction to the little things that happen in life. It will reveal a lot about them that they may really not be ready to lay bare.
5. Sensitivity
The perfect lovers are always the ones who are sensitive about things that happen to you and always want to know more. This may or may not depend on your taste as they could be overly sensitive and become a nuisance at times.
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