They say men are visual, which is true to a greater extent.

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However, the visual part is mostly used by men for the initial contact or approach; the character is what maintains the connection.

When a man is still trying to convince you to fall in love with him, there are things he won't tell you he dislikes just to create an image of a "perfect" man he can be. 

However, these are three things men generally don't like about ladies: 

1. Flirting with other men

Of course, when he is still chasing after you, he will entertain this.

Once you say yes, this changes immediately, as he expects you to flirt with him alone. 

Flirting with other men will make him jealous hence creating a feeling of insecurity. 

Men will rarely show these feelings, but deep down it hurts them. 

He may decide to call it quits giving other excuses, but the main problem may be your overly flirting character.

2. Overdemanding

Men dislike overdemanding ladies. 

This can easily push your man away. 

A man may be rich, but if you are materialistic, he may think you are a "gold digger".

A man would prefer to "spoil" you willingly than when you demand it. 

In terms of character, communication is essential. 

Instead of trying too hard to change your man, communicate with him gently and let him know how much his bad character is affecting the relationship.

These two aspects are good when they happen naturally, rather than you dictating everything. 

3. Not being remorseful

We all make mistakes at one point or another. 

A lady who never admits her mistakes and is always blaming the man for everything that goes wrong in the relationship is a turn off to many men. 

Once a man realises this, he may decide to find peace elsewhere. 

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