As a member of any group, it is hard to know what other group members think of you. They put on a smile and respect you, but that is just the outward dimension to your perception. The question you need to ask yourself is whether it is the same deep down inside. Is the smile genuine even behind your back? Just because they are always with you does not really mean they entirely like you. You could be the black sheep in the group.
It may be hard to know that you are the odd one out but here are the most consistent signs that you have fit where you don't really belong.
1. You are not involved in their plans
From parties to having days out, the closest you come to involvement is when they alert you after everything is in motion. They just kind of ambush you and tell you that they are on their way out to someplace. That could have been something that has been planned for days on end but for you, it's a question of 'Can you make it today?' The worst case scenario is when you get to learn of their activities on social media.
2. They have no respect for what you do
It could be out of jealousy but more often than not, it is because they do not see you as a viable member of their flock. They will never inquire about anything you do or how it is progressing. Even if it kills you, they are fine with it.
3. You are not addressed in the right manner
In normal group conversations with your peers, the code used does not really have to be that formal. However, you will find that you are the only one on the receiving end of cruel jokes and they kind of laugh at you rather abnormally. Teasing is okay, but when it becomes a norm, ask yourself questions.
4. You are fiercely on your own and they don't care
At times, you may want to have your own time to do your stuff. When you abandon your pack, it is normal that concerns are raised. But what happens when they do not seem to care at all? Well, in that case, it could be that they are relieved you are gone or they just don't want to seem concerned as they fear you may return.
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