A relationship brings with it the chance to feel loved as well as enjoy the passion and thrills of affection with your partner. However, it could be bitter aloes for you if your partner does not really want you and sees you as an intruder to what they really want. You are seen as a stranger yet you think your happiness lies there.

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At any point, you may feel abandoned and on your own in a relationship. You will blame yourself thinking the problem really lies within. Well, as much as it partly does, the relationship could be a wrong one for you. Here are the signs you are looking for love in the wrong places.

1. Your needs are constantly dismissed

Much as some needs may be quite unrealistic, there are some that are not really supposed to be brushed off or imminently shot down. You can give an allowance and watch for yourself. You need to watch how your partner behaves when you request some 'minor' things. Their attitude will tell a lot. If they really care, all you ask for will never be taken for trash.

2. No inspiration

There has to be inspiration and motivation in all that you stand for. Your partner has to inspire you to achieve your dreams and what you want in life. If they are a barrier to that or do not care about anything you want to achieve, you should seriously consider stepping aside because that is not your relationship. You could be a stranger where you think it is home.

3. Instabilities

The relationship could be unstable but what will be more shocking is that your partner seems to not care or do anything that makes the situation better. An unstable relationship only has one known destination. It is going to fail and end miserably. If they can't or don't want to make the situation better, just move on, you are not really supposed to be there.

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