It is very unfortunate to be a hustler in Kibera, working all the day out, and then when you come back home you meet an ineffective bedroom.
Let's see the commonest mistakes both partners make while in the room of leisure and rest.
1. Assuming that your partner will read your mind and know what you want
Every person has a different software running them. Never assume that you can be read in books by your partner. You must be free and tell them exactly what you want and not expect them to know it pronto.
2. Not being the active partner
Do not just be there! Do something exciting.
Never imagine that men always want to be the ones running the show every day. If you are the woman, also contribute to the intimacy from your own corner. Spice up and excite the action!
3. Expecting your partner to switch on whenever demand hits
Do not be the poor horseman who jumps onto his horse at any time and expects the poor animal to take him to Nairobi town and back. Men and women are prone to stress, withdrawal, and stuff. So come slowly.
4. Talking during the action
This should have been crime number one in the constitution! Talking just acts as an intrusion to the intimacy. Can't you keep the story to another time? Bedroom intimacy is a sacred affair of souls bonding to form one, so postpone your great story to later.
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