I have been asking myself, why are some men single for a very long time? Yet they are seen with many beautiful girls taking selfies here and there? I finally found out the simple weird reasons.
1. You are a member of "Team Mafisi"
This is sometimes a "prestigious" thing for a man to brag about in front of his crew. However, it is a turn off to many girls because, girls being vulnerable, they will not want someone who is going to play on them. This is the norm of many men who call themselves "hyenas". Let me not lie to you, you should never brag about this in front of girls, yes they will be interested in your company but dating, no. Tell men about this and receive a "heroic" applause.
2. You are a liar
Everyone deserves honesty and when you are trying to catch up with a girl that you like, remember that she is also doing some background check about your profile. If your record is contrary to your speech, she will ask you politely, "Please can we just be friends?'
3. You are probably broke
It is said that money cannot buy everything, it is true but among the things money can buy is loyalty of some girls, note some. Many beautiful girls especially this Nairobi women, they will want to be "spoilt' at high end restaurants, this needs money a good money. In fact some of this beautiful girls do not understand your matatu language, they need Uber and Taxify. If you cannot afford this, then you are declared unwanted.
3. You are "too local"
Beautiful girls want to be associated with top labels such as Versace, Gucci, real Adidas and Nike. If you are kind of a man who doesn't understand how cool any of the labels I have mentioned above are, then lets be frank you are probably single and searching or you do not have a beautiful chic. If you are putting on baggy, faded jeans, torn shirts, you are the "too local " guy.