The chemistry and the prerequisites that are true to the definition of love are sadly elusive to many. It seems many do not really care about what love is, to say the least, or do not want to care.
As such, finding true love seems to be a task very few want to exploit while the majority will want to just go with the flow: Settling where fate seems to take them.
But how really, do you find the love that lasts and consequently avoid that which lusts? Well, here is how.
1. Choose wisely
In choosing, you have to weigh the odds. You have to consider the possibility of not being right in choosing or not choosing someone. You should not just settle for anything you find along the way. Some perceived lovers can be masters at camouflage and deception. All you have to do is give it time and arrive at the most viable option.
2. Accept that you can sometimes be the problem
Once you accept that all may not be perfect with you, you begin experiencing life in a much more suitable perspective. You have to understand that you may have flaws and also that the inability to find that special someone may be up to you. Work on yourself and let everything play out. Just remember to be extra keen.
3. Understand that people fall in love differently
People will know you for a day or two and say they love you. It may be genuine or it may not. Others will stay with you for a year or so and say they love you. In this case, also, it may be genuine or, there is also a possibility that it is not. You therefore have to accept that people fall in love and love differently. Don't just pass over him just because he wanted sex on the first date. Make him wait and watch out. Remember that there are those who will wait for even a year for sex and then leave after having it.
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