However much men would like to parade themselves as stoic and accomplished, they too like women crave validation from their better halves. They have this hidden want to be seen and appreciated by their women.

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As a woman, you should know how to configure your man's settings so as to get the best out of him in your relationship. Women were blessed with the power of smooth-talking their men, owning this power and using it to your advantage might just prove critical to sustaining a happy relationship.

Here are some of the things that men want to hear from their women.

1. You're the man

Your man is definitely alive to the fact that you've dated other men before. He's also aware of the possibility that he might not be the last either. Making verbal assurances is one sure way of calming certain insecurities that might emerge along the way.

2. Total acceptance

We all have flaws, after all, we're only human. When a woman can categorically ascertain his partner's flaws and still accept him unconditionally then love blooms. Communicating this acceptance is crucial.

3. Acknowledge his efforts

When a man treats his woman right, respects her opinions and values their union, then it's only right for the woman to positively reinforce these behaviours with acknowledgement and appreciation.

4. Compliment his abilities

Though they might be conquerors in some aspects of their lives, men still want their egos stroked. Compliments about his wits, trade, looks, character and uniqueness could go along way in building his affection towards you.

5. He's your world

Letting your man know that he's your best friend, your lover and the rock of your life is something that should never be assumed. Verbalise the words, make him know and understand what he means to you.

6. He rocks your world

Bedroom matters matter. A man needs to know that his game is on point in between the sheets. Don't leave him guessing and wondering.