Life after a break up is hard with all kind of thoughts crisscrossing your mind. Feelings of betrayal and remorse are, to say the least, disturbing.
One is easily irritable and moody during this time. It is a moment many lovers dread but at one point in time, due to various and unavoidable circumstances, you call it quits.
There are things that should be left unsaid to your exes including:
1. I miss you
You often recall the times you had together: nice gifts, good compliments and certainly a lot of love. You feel like telling your ex how much you miss them hoping that they'll reply positively.
But if their reply derides you, you'll end up in discouraged and wallowing in self-hatred. You should keep off from this!
2. How is your new partner
You will end up in regrets and bitterness if you keep poking your nose in her business. Some of your exes are good in demoralizing if they discover that you keep on clinging to them. Move on with your life.
3. Let's be friends
It pains to be called a friend after being a lover. Friendship can never be compared to love. Always remember this.
4. We can meet and hook up
Meeting with your ex and hooking up is just a way of dipping yourself into a can of worms. You broke up simply because your relationship couldn't work. It's unpleasant since he/she may plot a revenge against you.
5. I regret the day I met you
Being mature involves making well-informed decisions. Telling your ex how you hate the day you met will bounce back to you and you'll end up regretting why you said it to them. Think again since this will just inflate their ego while you hurt yourself.
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