Heartbreaks can be overwhelming. It is hard to accept and move on after the man or woman you trusted breaks your heart. Are you dating this man who seems not ready for commitment? Here are four signs he’s afraid of getting hurt again, Elcrema.com reports.

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1. He changed his plans along the way

A man who is afraid will change his plans in the relationship. No man wants to be hurt over and over again. He will be reluctant to go through the pain he went again. He won’t commit himself if he knows very well things we tough on his side when he was a good man before.

2. He has mixed feelings

A man who was once heartbreak will show mixed feelings. You won’t understand whether he loves you or not. He will act in a manner that will leave you wondering whether he truly cares. The mixed signals show he is afraid of being heartbroken once more.

3. He is not ready for a relationship talk

A man who has been hurt before will rarely want to engage in relationship talk. He feels the pain of being in love with the wrong person. He fears being hurt again. He will avoid the topic by all means.

4. Episodes of jealousy are still memorable: Does he keep talking about his ex? An element of jealous might come into the affair when the issue of an ex-crops up. His jealous could also mean he is not ready.