Many people fake it until they make it. It is hard to determine whether the man or woman in your life will make a good partner. 

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Most people in love end up regretting their decisions for falling for wrong men and women. 

Conduct proper research before accepting him or her into your life. 

Here are three signs you’re falling for who they could be, not who they are:

1. You are falling in love with him or her too fast

Love is blind at times. You are likely not to see the kind of person you are dating is not the right one if you rush into the relationship. 

It is recommended to take your time before dating anyone. 

Know the person you are dealing with before giving him or her your heart. 

You risk being heartbroken if you do not tread cautiously. 

2. You are ever talking/bragging about him or her

A good partner is one who makes you fall in love and not brag about him or her all the time. 

If you find yourself bragging too much about your partner, then something is wrong somewhere.  

You should talk about him to friends and relatives, but not all the time until you settle down with them.

3. You are struggling to change him or her

 You need a good person in your life. There is no time to change someone. 

If he or she is not the right person, accept and move on. 

You are likely to be disappointed if you put a lot of effort trying to make him or her a better person.

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