No matter how much you love him, there comes a time when a breakup is inevitable. It means that he can't continue committing to the relationship.

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So painful are heartbreaks, but if a breakup is out of your control, stand strong and wait for that special person who is meant for you.

These are some of the phrases that guys use to terminate the relationships with girls:

1. We can do well as friends

This statement implies that he doesn't want to devote himself to you but need your friendship. He feels fine to have freedom rather than confinement that bounds a relationship. 

2. I feel like I'm unprepared

This happens when you decide to go a stride further and tie the knot with him. Since he wants time to enjoy his life before he finally settles, he comes up with such statements. 

He sugarcoats them to try and convince you that though he loves you, he ain't ready. 

3. You are awesome and gorgeous, however...

When a guy is superficial, he might think of substituting you with someone whom he sees better than you. He won't tell you of the 'new girl' and will be skilful to escape from any form of commitment with you. Wait for the right guy.

4. I require some time with myself

It is a move to indirectly tell you that you aren't worth his future plans. It's a retreat to try and think of how he can quit from your involvement with him. Here, he wants to trigger you to withdraw from the relationship yourself.