The courting period is very important to individuals intending to live together. It is at this time that you get to know the person you will spend the rest of your life with.
During courting, you get to identify the flaws and pluses that your prospective life partner has.
As such, you should always be keen to notice the type of man that comes with the intention of really staying. It is true that many will come, but not all of them will stay. Some do not deserve to stay while others will not want to stay.
But what do you need to see in a man to ascertain his seriousness?
1. He gives you space
It not guaranteed that a man will let you be who you are and have time to do your stuff. Many of them will always want you to abandon everything and give them a following, quite literally. As such, if you can find one who allows you to be you without any chance of the love he has for you dimming, you really need to let him in and even get married to him. He is that special.
2. Tells you openly that he loves you
The ones that are just stopping by with no intentions of loving you will always find it difficult saying they love you face to face. They will prefer to do it via text message and will even be uncomfortable during a call. If he is that comfortable telling you and describing the love he has for you face to face, there can't really be anything he is trying to hide.
3. Inspires and motivates you
If he inspires you to achieve your goals however small they are, trust me, he is there to stay. The passers-by who are only interested in sex will only focus on your looks and encourage you to dress well but really, there can't be anything.
4. Naturally does things for you
He will do great things for you. It will almost be natural that he does them. He won't find any wrong going to great lengths just to make you happy.
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