A break up is a nasty thing for a person to endure. However, sometimes it can be easy for a girl to get out of a relationship she is not interested in anymore.
Kevin, a good friend of mine just broke up with his girlfriend, when he narrated to me what had transpired, I realized that sometimes girls can be “heartless”. They will give all manner of excuses to get away from you. Kevin said that he realized that Kate was no longer in love when she started giving the following excuses;
I think we need a break
A relationship is not a football match where you play for the first half then take a break to refresh. It is something you need to continuously nurture but if you get to a point where your woman is asking for a break just know that she is planning to go.
My parents said that we should not marry from those “far off” places
Supposing you are from Garissa and your woman is coming from Keroka in Nyamira and then she starts telling you that her parents warned her against getting married to guys from “far off” places, it is a sign that she wants to go, if a person thinks that you cannot get married then it means there is no relationship.
I am not the best option for you
Imagine my friend Kevin was so in love, he did so much for this girl until sometimes when we met as a crew we would make jokes that she had “sat on him”. However, one day she told him that “I am not the best option for you, you will find someone better” and then she left.
You are not treating me better
You have known her for so long as a quiet person but all over a sudden she turns in to a “drama queen”, every day accusing you of neglecting her and not being caring, it is a sign that she wants to be left alone.