By closely looking at the stories covered by the media recently from Gusii region, cases of suicidal deaths have been on the rise.
The escalation of these cases is impacted by family rows where the husbands resolve to end their lives instead of seeking the guidance of experts.
I have summed up all the aspects that a man should look at before marrying a woman.
1. Marry a young woman.
According to the law of nature, men marry down while women marry up. This is logical since women age faster than men, therefore, a man needs to enjoy her beauty as they get old. Equally younger women tend to respect and embrace their husbands.
2. Do not marry a career woman.
Most career women are hesitant and tend to antagonise the Omogusii culture. Women should do house chores, taking care of the husband and children. However, career women will oppose this leading to frustrations.
Run away if she always talks of divorce as an option of solving conflicts.
A woman who always talks of divorce after every simple disagreement will disappoint you some day. That is a red flag!
3. She must be a warm woman.
Someone who welcomes you well after a day's job, when having frustrations a glimpse on her smile will enlighten you.
4. Choose a lady with a traceable family background.
Any woman brought up by a mother and father, is considered virtuous, though not all. This will help in bringing up your children. They will at least copy from their mother. Especially the female children.
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