Whenever you decide to go separate ways with your partner for whatever reason, it takes quite sometime before you can be free and get over the emotional impact of the relationship going sour.
After you are sure that all is well and that you do not see any other person more suitable than the person you were previously into, you best stop and think twice before getting back into the relationship or even suggesting that it starts happening.
Your cheating partner may accept you back or reinstall you in their life but what will the future hold? Do they even mean it? What if it is a trick? These are some of the questions you need to ask yourself.
Here is why you need to think twice before getting back with them:
1. They could be just using you
Before you get back with them, you should do an evaluation of why they really want you back in the first place. It could be that they just want to use you and then leave you or make you leave. They may not have changed much, it is up to you to find out.
2. They may disregard and disrespect you
Before going back, you must always think about the possibility of the level of respect available. You may go back and find that they highly disrespect you and do not see you as anything. It could be arising from the instances that led to the separation. Respect may never come back. To find out if they will respect you if you go back is entirely up to you.
3. They may cheat even more
Going back to them will almost show that you possibly do not have any other place to go unless you have valid reasons to go back and they also have concrete reasons to accept and accommodate you.
If not, you could force your way back and end up living a very miserable life as they will cheat even in the full view of you or in your presence.
4. They could be angling to micromanage you
After you go back, the condition could be that you do what they want or stay away. Such a relationship will be so unhealthy and you may not really need to be there that long.
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