Love. It is more than just a word and has a deeper meaning than you may ever think you know. It stands for far much more than the representative four letters. If, in any case, your partner says they love you, it can't really mean anything until they can at least prove it via a series of actions.
On that note, it could be true that your partner is just tolerating your presence, but does not really love you. They just seem happy around you but frown and curse you when you leave.
But how will you know that you are just being tolerated? Well, you won't need rocket science or wave equations to determine that. Here are the very simple signs.
1. They put you on hold all of the time
During your love life or in your relationship, you will realize that your partner is always hesitant to commit to anything. Whenever you try to come up with talk of you ending up together, they will shrug and want to pull it down. They will tell you to be patient and not rush anything. When this repeatedly happens despite having dated for a very long time, just hang on at your own risk.
2. They talk too much about their other world
In a world where it is supposedly the two of you, you will find that you are marginalised and always on the edge. If they are not talking about their other friends, it is their family, their education or their occupation. You just aren't any part of their plans. You, in fact, kind of exist only in that setting and not anywhere else.
3. They're just relaxed
At any point, you may find that your partner is just relaxed and just letting everything to take care of itself. Nothing matters much to them.
4. Occasionally on your own
You will be on your own in doing most of the things. They will let you do all you like and not want any sort of association. If you ask for help in accomplishing something, all they do is wish you well and distance yourself from it. Even if you decide to leave, they will be 'ok.'
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