Being in a relationship with somebody means knowing them well. Some conversations are healthy for a relationship while others can really hurt.
Here are 5 conversations you should never have with your spouse;
1. Your previous sexual experiences
No matter how exemplary your ex was in bed, it should be a matter to keep as a memory and not to discuss with your spouse.
It could hurt them so bad and additionally ruin their self-esteem. Keep such discussions for yourself.
2. Negative opinions on them
May be his new haircut is awful and he slashed off all his beard and this isn't good for you. Just keep it for yourself because the moment you tell them you hate it, they could be hurt.
For the men, if her hairdresser did hell on her hair, keep your opinion to yourself, she doesn't need to hear it.
Never trash-talk to them about their flaws and behavior that you hate.
3. Negative comments about their family or friends
Just like you value your family and friends, they value them too. So keep any negative comments about them to yourself.
4. Comparing them to other people
Your man doesn't want to hear how your friend's husband takes her out every weekend or how he buys her gifts every evening.
Again, your wife doesn't want to hear how sexy your friend's wife dresses when they are indoors. Women should stop comparing their men to others; same to men.
5. Complaining whenever they fall short of money
Complaining to your spouse whenever they lack finances is a very bad habit and can lead to divorce if not taken care of.
This is a time when all they need is encouragement and not noise and blames.
Always watch what you discuss with your spouse.