Dating and relationship come with lots of dynamics and psychology. A person needs to understand all of them to mold a successful relationship and avoid heartbreaks that could be so unnecessary on some occasions. Many have however completely failed to understand this and have since fallen victims on very numerous occasions as in not knowing what to do or where the problem could be. Many have even gone further to blame themselves for failed relationships. It is extremely hard to know how a person feels unless they let you know it themselves.
However, there are signs of the dying affection that can easily be uncovered or seen. Whenever you see the following signs on your partner, know its time to go back to the drawing board or better still walk away while you still can.
1. Your company is irritable
Your partner may suddenly start feeling uncomfortable around you and sometimes come up with pleasant excuses just to break free. This could happen when on a walk for example or when on a date where you could be enjoying doing something together then something just comes up out of the blue and they say they would like to leave and attend to some other matter. Whatever the reason that may be given, if they ever start feeling uncomfortable on numerous occasions then perhaps it will be time to just walk away.
2. Communication starts going down
Your partner may suddenly start limiting the communication that you have been having while always seemingly busy on ‘other issues’. This could be seen in the way they reply to phone calls or text messages for example. Most of the time, they would say they are busy and not ready to engage in a long conversation whether through phone or through chat. The problem, however, is that they will never let you know when they are done.
3. They don’t enjoy anything you like
Sometimes, your partner may start feeling uncomfortable with everything you like or enjoy doing. They suddenly feel you should change on some of your habits even though they may have been okay with them in the past. It is just a sign that something terrible is cooking.
4. They do not care
At times your partner may decide to agree with everything that you come up with. It will however not be because they like it but rather because they do not care about what you want to do and are possibly just fed up with the relationship for their own reasons. It is a very dangerous state of affairs and you may need to walk away with dignity if they are unwilling to say what the problem is.
5. They don’t introduce you to their friends
At times, your partner may decide to not have you anywhere near their friends and will on most cases not even let you know of their intentions to do anything together. You will be kept in the dark and even when their friends bump into you, they don't say anything in your presence. Not even your name.