Reading many articles about the challenges men go through in the love world is heartbreaking, to say the least.

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Our men navigate untold amount of pressure while they are dating but, all this can change for the better. Here are some things a man can do to stand out as the best in the relationship and kick out the inferiority complex mentality:

Be the man

It is understood that it is the woman who has to be moody and to catch the feelings every now and then. You are the man and you need to show the direction of your relationship. 

Imagine you are the man and you keep on catching the feelings, where do you think that relationship is going? Take responsibility and let it work.

Listen up

It does not matter whether your woman is the talkative one or the quiet one, you need to be this kind of guy who listens. You need to be there and know that she is happy or she isn’t, through her expressions and body languages, you will know what her messages mean.

Open up

You are the man and if there is something you don’t like, let her know. If there is something that gives you great pleasure in the relationship, let her know as well. 

This is what is required to build trust and it means that you will be building what you came for.

Be patient

Sometimes, things might seem to be not going as you expect but, just relax and give it time. You will need to wait. Patience pays, they say.

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