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3 ways you change when someone breaks up with you

Adonijah Nziwa
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Breakups provide us with a chance to learn the hard way. 

Many people fear breakups, but they are inevitable. 

There are different lessons you learn from your ex. and move on. 

You cannot afford to hold on for decades when your ex has already moved on. 

Here are three ways you change when someone breaks up with you:

1. You learn to tread cautiously

 It is not easy to win the trust of a heartbroken person. 

You will learn to take time before accepting to date someone else. 

You will live knowing that when you deeply love someone, you can't expect the same in return.

2. You learn to trust yourself than anyone

Trust is not easy to earn. Once you have been betrayed by someone you dearly treasured, you will not be ready to suffer again. 

You will learn to trust your instincts than anyone else’s. 

Breakups teach us not to be quick to trust anyone we meet in life. 

3. No more stalking

You could have broken up with him because of your stalking nature. 

Some people do not like being stalked. 

You won’t repeat the same after parting ways with him or her. 

You will learn the importance of keeping off other people’s private lives.

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