A solid relationship is based on essential tenets that go beyond love. Not all relationships overcome challenges and trials, while some only last for a short period. 

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If you’re in a solid relationship, here are four things that would never happen:

1. Big endless fights

It is normal to argue and have a couple of fights in a relationship, but when they become endless, it means your relationship is not solid. Big fights always result in stress and even break ups. Solid relationships usually have small fights that are later resolved. 

2. Feeling threatened by your partner’s ex

Past relationships do not have a place in the present. A solid relationship is based on trust and commitment, which makes it hard for you to feel jealous of your partner’s ex. Solid relationships are usually not threatened by the past.

3. Pretending to be someone your not

If you are with the right person, you should never hide your true personality. Solid relationships are based on honesty and openness. Pretending to be someone else would make it hard for your relationship to last. 

4. Talking ill about your partner to other people

It is normal to make mistakes in a relationship. However, if you find yourself telling your friends and family about how your partner makes mistakes, it is a clear sign that your relationship is at the end line. Partners in solid relationships do not vent out about negativity and constant criticism concerning each other.