It hurts when someone you love turns abusive. Most women are blinded by love and forget their real self. Never let a man intimidate you just because you love him. Here are 5 signs he’s a verbal abuser disguised as a real man as herway.net outlines.
1. He keeps calling you names
A verbal abuser will call you endless names. He does not care how you feel. He will abuse you even when you make a very minor mistake. Dating a man of this type can be a nightmare.
2. He disagrees with all your opinions
Your opinion never counts when a man turns abusive. He thinks you know nothing. He listens to himself and decides on your behalf.
3. He shuts you up
Whenever there is an argument, he tries to shut you up. He takes advantage of you being understanding to abuse you. You will rarely agree on anything with him.
4. He tries to justify his bad behaviour
An abuser rarely admits his mistakes. He tries to justify why he did wrong. Even if you catch him red-handed with another woman, he will justify the same.
5. He makes you think hard before you speak
Have you ever thought deeply before responding to your husband? An abusive man will make you think even when you are not supposed to. He makes you feel you are always on the wrong even if it is not the case.