It takes time to build self-esteem. There are different things you might be doing that leave your partner frustrated in life. Learning to treat your partner right will make your love life to last for decades. Here are 5 ways you’re unknowingly hurting bae’s self-esteem.
1. Making all decisions
It is only in a one-sided relationship where all decisions are made by an individual. You are hurting your partner when you want to make all the decisions. Your partner also has a say in everything you do in life. Ask him or her to contribute in one way or another.
2. Repeating the same mistakes
There are some mistakes you have been repeating even after promising your partner not to do so. Repeating your wrong deeds kills your partner’s self-esteem. Your partner will feel you are undermining her whenever you do not want to change your ways
3. Questioning his or her choices
You are hurting her self-esteem whenever you question her choices. Your partner should have the freedom to make choices. Whenever you choose things for him or her you mean they do not know what they are doing. Respect your partner’s choices even once in a while.
4. Taking over everything
No wants a controlling partner. Love is freedom. Your love life won’t last if you will keep controlling your partner. Give him or her freedom and happiness will come your way.
5. Cracking stupid jokes
Some jokes can hurt your spouse. While cracking jokes, ask yourself whether they will make him or her sad. Have limits when it comes to jokes you make whenever you are with the love of your life.