Heartbreaks are not something one can hope for in a relationship. It is however inevitable, some of the times. In that regard, you may be in a  good relationship and afraid to be heartbroken and left lonely by your partner. 

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Here are the signs, according to lifehack.org, that you are afraid of being left alone and heartbroken. 

Jealousy 

If you have a crippling jealousy every time you see your partner with someone else you probably are afraid that they may be moving one. With the advent of social media, you may even find yourself getting jealous that someone liked your bae picture. 

Ending a relationship before the other ends 

It is quite clear that when you end a relationship first, you want the other to feel the pain and not you. You are afraid of being the one whose heart gets broken. It will be like this in all relationship you engage in, analyzing it especially the negative side and opting out before you get heartbroken. 

Moving quickly from one relationship to another 

It takes time for you to get into another relationship, especially after a breakup. Moving on quickly to another means that you are afraid of being alone and that you want your new partner to mend that broken heart. 

You are too controlling 

You want to be in charge of the relationship and to some extent your partner. You want to be wherever they are at all times and you get really mad when they go out without you. Basically, you are on your partners every move, loving for even the subtlest hints that they may be intending to leave you. 

Staying in unhealthy relationships 

No one wants to be in an abusive relationship. However, if you are in one and you are still staying in it, it means that you are afraid of moving one.