When in a relationship, there are a lot of psychological bonds that exist on different dimensions and platforms. These define who you are and connects you to your lover.
However, there are relationship habits that will surely undo whatever it is you are meant for and possibly ruin your future. It is fair to say that an individual may be having some of these habits yet at the same time, be totally unaware of their existence in their being.
These habits will go a long way in creating a perceived perception from your peers that could damage your standing as well as your credibility.
Here are the relationship habits that you should stay away from.
1. Playing games
Playing games when in a relationship or during dating will only serve you the greatest harm and earn you a place at the table of failures in matters of love.
The games you play will catch up with you eventually and you will be the one to pay the price.
2. Dating only the people you are into
Dating the people you think you are into and avoiding others will surely not do you any good.
It could be possible that all those you think are meant for you are not really the ones and are actually not the blend for you.
The ones you avoid may actually hold the key to the best in you. So, your selectivity will only mean you keep avoiding the best.
3. Blaming yourself for every conflict
Taking the blame for every misunderstanding and conflict will only harm your psychological being.
If they can't accept to take part of the blame, don't accept to carry it all either. Learn to live a free life.
4. Letting them define terms of the relationship
Letting them define terms of the relationship will only mean that you get to live a fake life and do not get to do anything on your own whatsoever. You will be condemned to living their life and not your life.
5. Asking why they rejected you
If you are rejected, learn to accept and move on. Do not dwell so much on the rejection to the point of forgetting who you are and what you are meant for.
There is more to life that you will need to exploit rather than dwelling in the aftermath of rejection.