At some point in any relationship you will break up with your lover, or someone you thought meant the whole world to you. It will hurt if you truly loved. You may even begin sending emissaries in form of texts or calls. 

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Sometimes your ex may not want anything to do with you. Completely. No matter how much you try to get him or back to your life. Often he or she acts in the following manner: 

Insists the break was his or her fault 

There are often reasons for a break-up. If your ex insists it was his or her own fault, he or she does not give you a chance to solve the cause of the break. They prefer the status quo – both of you are exes. 

He or she does not want anything to do with you 

You may be too tempted to reach out to your ex. After all, the two of you once shared a life, secrets and all. However, if they don’t want anything to do with he or she will act like you are some form of exotic fungi, a stranger he or she has never heard of. 

He or she is angry at you all the time 

The moment the two of you manage to get in touch he or she is angry all the time. They may also tend to be mean, saying words that hurt more than mending the broken heart you are nursing. At that point know that he or she does not want anything to do with you.

 He or she is in a relationship with someone else 

It is a sign that tells you that you belong to the past, and that’s it. He or she has moved on and you should too. The times you shared have no chance of being rekindled because there’s someone else in their lives. 

Your primary means of communication is facebook 

You don’t have his or her contacts. Matter of fact you had to create a pseudo account in order to get in touch with them. The break up was nasty and he or she had to delete their footprints that you could have traced back to them. Even with their politeness on facebook, he or she does not seem to encourage the conversation. Your ex does not want anything to do with you.