At the commencement of any romantic feeling, several ladies may not be sure whether the man they are dating is showing real feelings or just playing with her. The moment you ask yourself the question of whether your man is using you or not for sex or money, just know that there are millions out there in the same situation. The key thing is to use the right information you have to find out the truth and be able to get out of that relationship before he hurts you. No one really deserves to be used by the other in any way.These tips will help you know if he is using you or not:1. Every time you want to engage in a “commitment” topic, he is evasive If your man is evasive and does not want to talk about where he thinks the relationship is headed, there is something wrong. Since you have spent plenty of time together and now you know each other better, it is time he tells you something. If he is using you, he will avoid this topic at all cost.2. He is always trying to make the relationship unbearableYou do not have to be uncomfortable in a relationship, much less, feel insecure. On the contrary, he should be the one who makes you feel secure and comfortable. This is another red flag you should check out.3. He always feels ashamed to introduce you to other peopleWhy? But why? Why would he fail to introduce you to his friends, families and others? Especially when the relationship is new and you are trying to know each other? Something is wrong here.4. He does not show you, affectionate loveAffection is important in your relationship and should be accompanied with love. If your man is using you, all you will see is sex or engaging in sexual acts and these with unattached with emotions, just movements! You might even think that his body and the mind are not linked, just like a robot! Why accept to be used like a sexual object? Say goodbye quickly.5. When you try to know him, he will try to be evasive and hide information as much as possibleIn case you find yourself talking about anything else apart from talking about yourselves, there is an issue. Your partner may not even know your favourite colour, favourite food type and so on, just because he is not emotionally ready to be with you. Keep in mind this: you will find a trusted and caring partner. Just be a little bit patient.

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