Cases of men sleeping with their nannies is not a rare phenomenon in Kenya. Many marriages have been broken because of this.
The issue has by and large been attributed to busy schedules by the lady of the house to a point it is seen that she delegates her wifely duties to their househelps which in the ends, breeds infidelity.
However, there are things as the lady of the house you should do to avoid such situations as listed below:
1. Show love to your husband.
If you become too busy for your husband he will definitely find an alternative. Live like you are married and not like you are only trying to make it happen. Let your househelp know that her bosses are married and coming in between them will be immoral.
2. Be open and talk about it
Talking about something you fear requires a lot of courage. Talk to your husband about what you expect, equally, talk to your nanny, Threatening people will not work out because you will not be available to execute your own threats. Make a family and do not mistreat your nanny because your husband might exploit that to his advantage.
3. Remain a wife
Make sure that the wifely duties like cooking for your children and husband among others are not forgotten. This is what binds the marriage and once this bond tinkers, things may head south.