Finding true love in campus is almost impossible and most of the relationship in the university struggles to reach the next semester.
The campus relationship is always like another unit that ends when one partner finishes his/her exams and goes back home.
Here are the main reasons why most University of Eldoret comrades do not last in relationships:
Love on first sight
Firstly, is the love on the first sight factor. This is always the wild attraction and butterflies that you feel for someone when you first set your eyes on them. The feeling might be mutual or one partner may take advantage of that when he/she realizes that. And because passion fades even in the most passionate relationship, yours will fade within the shortest period that will not see another semeter just like a unit.
Lack of similar interest
Another reason is the lack of similar interests and values in the relationship. These are always realized after dating for a while and you start to understand the true colours of a person. All that will be ringing in your mind is, “I never met an angle”. Different expectations will then lead to disrespect that will slowly end the relationship before the semester ends.
The time factor
Since everyone is busy with classwork and you are not residing under the same roof, you rarely have enough time to spend together. The relationship, therefore, becomes a weekend and online affairs. And if you believe in out of sight out of mind, you will struggle to reach another semester.
However, true love exists where you still feel deep care for your partner and feel like he/she is part of you. Otherwise, it is a major infatuation instead of love and it will end as you put the late full stop on your last examination paper.
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