Living with a purpose is the true meaning of the life everyone leads. It is never about the wealth and the beauty associated with having what others may find impossible to possess. It is a famous truth that you should get better with age. Well, if you really know what you want in life and how you want to have it, that notion will make a lot of sense. You will not want to remain as you are in any coherent sense.
People grow and develop at different ages in life. Maturity may come early for others while it may take a little longer for others. All in all, you should really realize who you are at some point in life to live fully and to completely accomplish your purpose in life. That point is usually age 30.
Once you attain the age of 30, here is what will happen.
1. You start living
This is not really to say that you may not have been living up to that point; it is rather, to say that you begin exploring the true purpose of life. You realize that a lot of things matter to you and a lot do not, in equal proportions. Here you drop the things and or people that do not really matter and start doing something towards your own self-satisfaction. You have accumulated some experience and is raring to just move on.
2. You realize your worth
At thirty, you will be done chasing around people and pursuing things that do not add any personal value to you. It will all be about you. Whatever step you take and whatever activity you engage in, you are your own top priority. Not so much else matters. You become the controller of everything that goes on in your life.
3. It is okay to say no
Before thirty, a lot of your decisions will be pegged on a lot of factors that will parenthetically prevent you from saying no to some things. You will always think that saying no will somehow hurt the other person or whoever is requesting something of you. At thirty, all will change. You will have that mild worry of how things may possibly turn out for you. You do not have much to live under the umbrella of false security and that will drive you to do things that will always keep you out of the comfort zone.
4. You realize that boundaries are important
The idea of living a fake life or behaving like a clown for the interests of someone else close to you is rife before the age of 30. After that, however, you will see the importance of how close someone should come or should stay. Not everyone will be allowed to be with you. You will realize that the closer some people come, the more problems they bring into your life. Now that you may have experienced a lot of misfortunes already, you will ultimately push these people away to stay free from drama and perceived difficulties.
5. You quit waiting for things to happen and start making them happen
Before 30, you may be living off the struggle of someone because you may probably be in school and not married yet. Everything falls into place via wishful thinking. At 30, that seems to be something you do not even want to hear about. If you are not married yet, you will not sit at your couch or sofa and wait for someone to come and take you away. You will go out and try and make it happen. It's everyone for themselves.
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