Being in love may involve a lot more delicacies than you may actually know about. There are small things which a lady will not want to see you do.
They may range from the very small statements to the creepy things you may even think it is fun to do together. To some, it may even be hard to let you know that what you are actually doing is not good at all.
Ladies, in particular, will not want to hear you ask some questions. Even though they may answer or give a reasonable reply and seem okay, they are inwardly disgusted by it. But which are these questions that ladies find disgusting to hear from a guy?
Here are some of the questions you should never ask a woman:
1. Why are you single?
No lady will be happy when you ask such a question. They may, however, pretend to be okay and seem fine but inwardly, these questions bring spiky chills across their whole body.
If she has chosen to be single or is in some way not dating anyone, it is something that concerns only them. Some ladies may actually fail to keep their cool and react angrily. All in all, they really don't like hearing anything of the sort from any guy or even a mate.
2. Where do you see yourself in the future?
This question does not go down well with anyone across all the social divides. People prefer to work on their own and let the future fall in place and in some way, have an effect on the same.
Ladies find it highly disrespectful and demoralizing when you enquire anything about what they think is in the offing. Are you trying to be a guardian of their lives or what?
3. Can I get you a job?
If she has nothing to spend days on, it does not really mean that she hates that state. As a matter of fact, many may even like it.
Even if she tells you she feels bored being idle, asking whether or not you should get them something to do will not be taken in good faith. They may gladly accept but later ponder about the same and do 'evaluations' that will lead to crazy conclusions.
4. Can I kiss you?
If you are in a romantic moment, asking if you should start the kissing will send multiple and confusing signals. I mean, what are you waiting for? You better just try it and be pushed away rather than requesting to do it.
5. Can we be friends?
Ladies may find it okay if they are the ones asking this question. But, they do not really like it when they are the ones to answer such a question.
If you have been closer to her long enough or have been talking, that is the friendship and you don't really go about asking for it or more. They consider it very peculiar.
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