First dates can get you a lifetime partner or kill your self-esteem permanently. This depends on how you carry yourself on that day especially if you want to woe a lady from Machakos County.

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Believe it or not, getting a Machakos queen isn't a walk in the park. You've got to impress her left, right and center.

These women are very keen and observant on first dates, that's when they can make a decision on whether to board the ship of relationship or not.

Women don't always have a hard time during first dates but men may in one way or the other shoot themselves on the foot and regret later.

Here are some habits that Machakos women loathe with passion on the first date:

1. Being asked to get married

That question would be a turn-off for a person you just met and because you're excited, your mouth overtook your mind.

That slight mistake can drive away any chance you had of having a Machakos lady for a partner or even future wife.

Yes, women love being married but on a first date, that question would be annoying. Who wants to test the waters with both feet?

2. Not being given fare or taken home

Truth be told, even if a woman is 'self-sufficient' she would still expect the man to be a gentleman at some point. Machakos ladies are no exceptional.

After your date and you have no car, call a taxi, or give her fare despite her refusal.

Don't take her no for an answer, she might be trying you to see how far you can go.

3. Being taken to cheap eateries

This doesn't mean you must take Machakos ladies to Hilton, VillaRosa Kempinski or Weston Hotels. No, but sweep her off her feet by taking her to a nice three-star hotel and ensure she enjoys her day out.

It's the first date, make it special. Women preferring high-class hotels doesn't mean they are gold-diggers, they just have a class, that's all.

4. Bragging

Women hate men who brag. On a first date, let your actions speak louder than words.

Too much talk full of lies won't impress the Kamba lady before you. Instead, do more of the listening than talking. Women love men who offer a listening ear.

5. Unhygienic men

Take your bath, brush your teeth, comb your hair, put on clean clothes, especially socks.

Don't arrive on a first date looking like something brought by a cat. No woman wants to be seen with a man who has got food stains in his teeth, yet he can't keep his mouth shut.

Also, ensure you got a sense of fashion and I assure you that Machakos girl you're eyeing will fall at your feet.

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