Falling in love requires that both of you have complementary aspects that you all look for and that the person you think you should love must possess a majority of the things you are looking for in a possible life partner. Many have fallen for the wrong people and when they are finally rejected, they go about blaming themselves and even decide to stay away from love for some time. However, even after a rejection, there are ways you can work your way back into their plans and get them to love you. This is done through simple psychological steps and tricks that give amazing results.
1. Fulfill their unmet needs
Everyone desires to achieve or have something in life that they fall short because of one shortcoming or the other. After rejection, you can choose to stay not as a lover but as a ‘friend’ and uncover these things they really desire to have. If it is too big for you or is unrealistic, you can always look for other options as it will surely not be one. Once you know of these things, it will then be up to you to try and fulfill that while acting as a friend. Doing that which they like on several occasions will likely change their perception of you and start considering a possible welcome back to their plans.
2. Keep trying
Sometimes, people will turn down your advances just to taste your patience. It is rare but it is also true. It could be that the person you try to love do not really trust you that much but they nonetheless have an interest. As such, they will turn you down when you first make the big announcement but they will then still hope that you don’t go out of their way completely. If you do give up after being turned down just once, they will then be sure you were actually trying to be mischievous. You need to keep showing up and coming back long enough for them to be sure that you actually are serious and that you mean it.
3. Use their mutual friends as well as your own
Make sure you are nice to their friends as that is the only way your goodness report will reach them. Do good to them and always be gentle, they will surely start mentioning your friendly gestures to them and even just urge them to stick to you. These friends become your ‘goodwill ambassadors’
4. Associate yourself with positive things
Anyone will fall in love with anything that is genuine and good. As such, you will need to always stay positive even if it has to mean you pretend. You always have to talk about the positive things and like everything that is positive even if you actually don’t. When you do this, they will eventually change their mind and possibly erase all negative thought they had about you. They may have rejected you once but they will come asking for you later.