Walking down the aisle is a dream for many lovers. However, this should be a well-calculated move as it means that you will spend the rest of your life with the partner that you take down the aisle.
Broken and unsuccessful marriages are common due to the many challenges that come with this institution. Here are four reasons that should not force you to say “ yes I do “.
1 Age
Getting married because you feel that you are old enough or because you have gone beyond the years that you are supposed to marry is dangerous.
The danger here is that you end up making misinformed decisions. You don't take time to know your partner well, thus, you become a prisoner by choice.
2 Family pressure
Your family may be pressuring you to marry a particular person because they have a special inclination towards them. However, this person may not be your choice for a wife but with the pressure from your family, you "mary in haste and regret later."
3 Physical attraction
They say beauty always lies in the eyes of the beholder. Be cautious when you're picking your partner because if you follow beauty, you could end up making one of the biggest mistakes in your life.
4 Out of loneliness
After a long spell of loneliness, you could finally decide that you will get yourself a wife or a husband without much thought about it.
However, though loneliness in itself is bad enough, marrying without a proper plan is fatal because you will end up inviting more trouble into your life.
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