Despite marriage being an important stage of life, it's never a thing to be happy about especially when you are surrendering yourself to it when you've got nothing on the ground.
As a woman, these three parameters would make your marriage stronger and more secure should you decide to get into one;
1. Become an independent woman
Although most people believe that marriage has always been softer for women than men, the world of today slowly scraps this norm.
Today, everybody counts in a marriage, and as a woman, don't be one who fully depends on your man.
Build your own life before you settle in marriage.
2. Learn to keep your issues to yourself
Women love to share ideas and issues including those that appear too personal.
Unfortunately, that won't work in marriage. If you are fond of sharing every single thing you do with other people around you, then it's time to change.
As marriage knocks, keep your issues to yourself and your husband. Do not share with your friends.
Leave that at the relationship level as marriage is different unless you need to break it.
3. Be ready to fight for what is yours
Sometimes you can take a relationship lightly, but this should not be the case in marriage.
Break up and divorce is very different when it comes to marriage, and by this I mean divorce is way much serious and can affect your life for the rest of it.
Marriage is a lifetime commitment; therefore, always be ready to fight for your marriage.
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