Many single women in Nairobi will give you a reason for their being single. In most cases, these women reject men with their reasons being that they prefer being single. Here are three excuses a woman will produce for being single:
1. Men are liars
Not actually liars but 'dogs'. Nairobi girls who have been hurt in the past have this mentality that all men are liars and unfaithful.
It is embedded in the mind of every woman that no man is faithful, no man can love one woman, no man keep promises, no man can love till the end.
This is an excuse almost all single women tell so they can avoid more 'pestering'.
2. I'm not ready for a relationship
She isn't ready for a relationship. In fact, she is not planning to get into a relationship any sooner. Every single woman uses this as an excuse when actually it's a lie.
Some just haven't found the right men yet or they don't just know how to keep men. They use this excuse to cover up their poor relationship skills.
3. Am happy alone
This is true, there is always some type of happiness when one is single. However, some women are fond of using this excuse when questioned on why they are single. Some also use it to send men away.
It should therefore be known to our ladies that the happiness they have for being single does not surpass the happiness one has when in a healthy relationship and it takes your efforts to make a relationship enjoyable for you.